Post with 2371 votes and 66133 views shared by aranjevi horrible people vs nice people. There is no other reason why innocent women or girls end up trusting some men and end up in a grave tragedy we teach kids, not to talk to strangers, especially those who offer you sweets and the reason is that those nice people mean to harm them but then, how to differentiate between the ones who are genuinely nice. How to be nice to a mean person let's be honest, the last thing you probably want to give a mean person is your kindness when someone makes rude comments to you or acts in hurtful ways, it can be tempting to give it right back however. When you focus on being nice, you can end up ignoring how you really feel and what you want, and you might even let people mistreat you because you're too nice to tell them to f this doesn't mean that you have to be an asshole you just don't have to treat everyone's emotions like they're eggshells. But nice people tend to get carried away with the word everything becomes sorry this and sorry that, often to the point where it loses its meaning and when that happens, you're not doing anyone any favors by asking for forgiveness, according to an article on elitedailycom you're simply trying to.
In the narcissistic family, it's all about image the focus is usually on how it looks to others this can cause troops of people pleasers and encourage behavior that is not authentic. Nice vs kind the difference between “niceness” and “kindness” is night and day , yet people often use these two words interchangeably, assuming that they're “ basically the “evil” embodied by the nice person is simply a more subtle, submissive form than that of the supervillain but wait, there's more not only does. When you are too nice you make your way through life by placating, making you vulnerable to being dismissed by others when you fear that you these compliments are often not sincere as much as they are a way to handle your sense of insecurity by making another person feel good when you make.
If someone is too nice to people, they start expecting unreasonable amount of niceness from others as well this always leads to the nice ones thinking others are being mean to them or taking them for granted, he writes a lot of people cannot handle this and when they talk about how they're nice to. There's another side to the story of kind versus nice, and that's the story of those who are hurtful or disrespectful to the nice person who are these people and what's driving their behaviour we know what makes someone kind: it's an outpouring of positive self-regard onto others what makes someone.
For the longest time, i felt like such an imposter in the business world i'm really goofy i take things personally and, i'm always looking on the bright side more than a few times, i've walked into business relationships bright-eyed, with open arms and a fully trusting heart — only to discover in hindsight that i probably. Your initial attitude should be nice, but let's say you've noticed someone who is mean towards the others, you're initial reaction should be firm to instill a message of “be careful, i don't allow maltreatment” this sort of attitude of 'be careful, i can be mean' is what some people choose to be all the time in order to maintain a. The mean people will get meaner but the nice ones will become more generous , thoughtful and kind when i ask a saskatchewan native who has lived in calgary for 17 years whether the city is nice, he nails it: compared to what compared to our neighbours to the south, sure we're nice, eh compared.
How can you tell a genuine person from the one who's just being fake nice to you you can literally sink hundreds of hours into books about human psychology trying to figure that out, or you can check these 8 illustrations that might give you an idea about it. Usually, employers rapidly scan the resume of each job applicant looking for relevant education, skills, and work experience they select 10 candidates for telephone calls, invite three in for interviews, and hire the one they like the best this is a bad way to hire because at best it gets you nice people. When describing people, they do not mean the same thing a ) he is a good teacher b ) he is a nice teacher a describes a teacher as being not bad the teacher does his job well b describes a teacher as being sympathetic, empathetic nice the teacher is not mean, rude, nor violent the teacher is. It seems quite possible, then, that niceness breeds niceness and in fact, there's evidence that nice people have a sunnier way of viewing the world university of illinois here again, agreeableness played a strong role in predicting a person's choice of positive vs negative experiences people high in.
Being mean to others gives us some form of 'percieved' security though illusory and fleeting the idea is to rise above this and embrace higher existence of complete security people completely secure are the ones who don't succumb to base desires finally we must try to be nice to other people as each one of us is.
They don't care about you because you don't mean much to them of course, they will never admit this nice guys are the ones who will deny their agendas until the end, possibly even believing their own lies being nice is only righteous when it's backed by genuine kindness when a person is kind, he or. There are many nice people and sadly many mean people a mean person is someone who doesn't care about anything/anyone except them you will see the mean questions quite easily in the quiz are you a meanie or a nicie until now you could only wonder but nowtake the quiz and find out plus if you're mean,. 'people' vs 'persons' how to choose between two words that seem to mean the same thing when a collective noun is called for (to refer, for instance, to the members of an entire nation) the appropriate word will always be 'people' (the french people) many usage guides over the years have suggested that there is a.